“Hey Sal – What do you get for the girl who has everything? I know people say that – but my friend really has everything she could possibly want or need. Help me think of some unique gift ideas, please!”
- Emily, Chicago, IL

Emily,

Finding gifts for friends is tough – especially when your friend doesn’t really need anything. So in this case, you have to steer towards items that they would never buy for themselves – frivolous things that are just fun, rather than functional. Here are some good ideas I’ve used in the past.

Yellow Box Beauty.

I came across this service a couple years back, and it’s a welcome luxury to whoever receives it. At the start of each month, Yellow Box sends a beautifully wrapped yellow box to your friend, chalked full of the latest and greatest beauty products. Talk about a gift that keeps on giving! Check it out at: http://yellowboxbeauty.com/

Chicago Walking Tour

A great gift is something that you can share with your friend. Walking tours are a fantastic way to get out of the house and learn something new about our city. You can buy your friend’s lunch and beef up on local tid-bits, sure to impress friends and family for years to come. Your best bet? Fourth-generation Chicago historian Sally Sexton Kalmbach – she has a variety of tours from which to choose. Email her for details: sskalmbach@yahoo.com

A Pet Rock

I’m kidding…

Personalize It

If I know you PLRG reader, you’ve got a few Kodak/Facebook photo albums from the previous year – so why not pull those images off the net, and put them in your friend’s hands? A personalized photo album is always a sincere gift. Find a journal or album that you like, and place not only photos, but quotes, stories, and inside jokes inside. Depending on how artsy you are, you can really have fun with this. Try Anthropologie or T.J. Maxx/Marshalls for unique albums/journals.

(This advice column is brought to you by the ever graceful, polished and in-the-know, Sally Jackson. Sally is happy to offer her tips and guidance on everything from relationships to fashion to saving money. If you have a question for Sally, go ahead and email her at Sally@PoorLittleRichGirls.com)

We love the men in our lives. Whether it be our dads playing Mr. Fix It, brothers teaching us about football, or boyfriends helping with the dishes, they are always there for us when we need them. The most important thing to keep in mind when shopping for guys’ gifts is that, contrary to some opinions, men are not all the same. Each of the men in your life dances to the beat of a different drummer and your gifts to them should reflect their unique personality. Below, we’ve got gifts for all men from, Type A’s to Z’s.

For the GQ Guy

Cuff Links, Eco-artware.com
Cuff links are classic, try something off-beat like these vintage watch movement cuff links.
($130)

Custom Polo, Ralph Lauren
Pop this collar- go to www.ralphlauren.com and design him a custom polo. You can pick your own color, style, and monogram for a unique twist.
($79.50)

For the Metro Man

Gift Card, Halo For Men
Save him the embarrassment of asking the girl at the salon for a back wax. Hook him up with a gift card from Halo For Men for a relaxing spa session.
(Prices start at $50)

Bay Rum Men’s Shaving Kit, Burts Bees
“Looking good never smelled better.” Upscale shaving kits are an easy way to show a guy with sensitive skin that you care. We like this one from Burts Bees.
($30)

For the Emeril Wannabe

Knife Skills Workshop, Sur La Table
Help him hone some serious knife skills. The Gold Coast Sur La Table offers Knife Skill Workshops. You can book a class online for their Walton Street outpost but make sure you do it in advance, as space is limited.
($79)

Coffee For One, Willow
Coffee? Tea? Me? While you’re on your walk of shame home in below freezing weather your guy can enjoy his morning coffee all by himself! (We kid, we kid) But, this set is perfect for easy and quick coffee or tea.
($30)

For the Boss Man

Personalized Leather Portfolio, PersonalizationMall.com
We suggest something practical he can take to work or use for traveling like a leather folio or case for his business cards . Is it a little boring? Yes. But some guys (ahem, workaholics) dig this stuff. 
($54.95)

Power Station Organizer, X-TremeGeek.com
Help keep him organized and in control with this charging station. It keeps cords hidden and all his electronics will be in one easy to find place.
($19.95)

For the Party Guy

Gin and Titonic, Willow
Ships Ahoy! Under $10 gets you 4 ocean liners and 4 icebergs. Add a bottle of gin and you’re good to go.
($8)

Deluxe Marshmallow Shooter, BoyToys on Etsy.com
This is one of the coolest things we’ve seen in awhile. Operation is simple. Just load the mouthpiece with mini-marshmallows (it has a range of over sixty feet, we kid you not) and blow. Again, we can’t make this stuff up!
($10)

(Lindsey Duda)

Party Girls are always seen on the scene and have an amazing ability to stay out all night. They seem to have all the inside scoop on the hottest clubs, bars and restaurants (and maybe even a house party now and then). Of course, when she’s out and about she loves to be seen in the latest “it” accessories, and we’ve got plenty listed for you below.

OPI Designer Series Laquer, bebeautiful.com
This sparkly polish will her make her nails shine as she clutches that martini glass.
($4.42, originally $12.50)

BlackBook 2009 Guide to Chicago: Restaurants, Bars, Clubs, Hotels; Borders
As if she didn’t know where to go already! Just in case, make sure she gets the update with this hot city guide.
($9.95)

Midnight Bar Mixes, Crate & Barrel
These drink mixes are brought to you by the brains behind Whiskey Bar. There are seven cocktails to choose from, made of all natural ingredients. Just add your own liquor.
($9.9-$12.95)

Body & Soul D’Lites Lip Quad, Sephora
A party girl never leaves home without her lip gloss. This set makes it easy with a mini lip brush and velvet sleeve to keep everything together.
($18, originally $55)

Sex and the City: The Movie (Special Edition), Amazon.com
The perfect movie for that rare “night off” from bar hopping.
($19.99, originally $34.98)

Printed Satin Cami, Express
She’ll look smokin’ hot at the cubs in this cami. Or, for a more sophisticated look, she can wear this under a cardigan or blazer.
($29.99, originally $54.50 OR $19.99 with $10 off coupon code 6492)

Bow Halter Top, Victoria’s Secret
This backless number is seriously sexy and practical too (it’ll keep her cool on the dance floor!).
($33.99, originally $58)

SPLURGE

Crystal IPhone Case, CrystalIcing.com
The ultimate party girl needs her cell phone to be covered in swarovski crystals. If it wasn’t, how would anyone notice her texting and making all her big plans?
($317)

(Taryn Tawoda)

You’ll usually find the Beauty Maven lounging around the spa, stretching out at a yoga class or scoring free samples at a department store. She is a little obsessive compulsive about her beauty routine, but the results are worth it, as she always looks picture perfect. Any of the gifts here are sure to compliment her current fitness and beauty habits.

Manicure, Nail Bar
Anyone can appreciate manicured hands during the holiday season, so get your girlfriend a “Quickie Hand Job.” It includes shape, cuticle, detail, and high shine buff.
($15)

Gift Card, iTunes
A good workout would not be complete without a great soundtrack. Give that special someone a personal play list with a itunes gift certificate, includes free shipping!
(Starting at $15)

Sleep Mask, Flight 001
We all know the foundation of a good beauty regimen is a good night’s sleep. This pretty silk sleep mask will make catching some z’s even more enticing.
($22)

Audrey Hepburn DVD Collection, Target
The epitome of classic beauty. Give your friends a classic gift and a night in with Audrey.
($26)

SPRI Yoga Starter Kit, Sports Authority
Everything she needs to stay lean, toned and relaxed this winter, without ever having to leave the house!
($39.99)

Smashbox “Gift of Glow”, Sephora
A PLRG favorite, this make-up kit is valued at $127 but on sale for $46. If your looking for something less pricey, Sephora even has a ton of gifts under $25!
($46)

Hangover Helper Duo, Bliss Spa
This kit is the perfect solution to a hangover, inspired by David Kirsch the kit includes raspberry vitamin super juice and Kirsch’s famous energy bubbles.
($65)

SPLURGE

Dark or Pure ghd IV Styler, ghd
The rounded edges of this “styler” can create curls, waves or pin straight hair. Available in two limited edition stylers, Pure (white) or Dark (black) it also comes with a heat resistant carrying case.
($270)

(Veronica Mendez)

We might love the “Martha’s” in our lives more than anyone. It’s probably because they are constantly feeding us, taking care of us and sharing tips on how to do everything better. The “Martha-wanna-be” in your life will appreciate any of these gifts to stimulate the appetite and their creative minds. Chances are, you’ll reap the benefits!

Knife Sharpening, Northwestern Cutlery (810 W. Lake St.)
A dull knife is the most dangerous tool in the kitchen. Bring your knife set here and have them sharpened while you wait.
($3.50 per knife)

Magazine Subscription, Domino Magazine
It’s the gift that keeps giving all year long.
($10 for 10 issues)

Carmelini Candies, Das Foods
Katie Das started Das Foods in Chicago three years ago. Check out their Assortment box of Carmelinis. It “was among the top 10 picks for the “Outstanding New Product of 2008″ at the 2008 International Fancy Foods Show.”
(12 oz for $20.99)

Rachael Ray’s Big Orange Book, Everyday with Rachael Ray
Her newest cook book with over 400 recipes. 
($24.95)

Wine of the Month Club, Sam’s Wine
2 bottles a month for 3 months
($79.99)

CulinHome Knife Frame, Chopping Block
Cooking utensils of any kind are a great gift for the chef and Chopping Block has plenty of great option (like this knife set). Visit their 2 locations in Lincoln Square or in the Merchandise Mart.
($80.00)

20% off, Bliss Food Creations & Catering
This is good towards cooking classes, personal chef services and catered events.
(Contact Kristin Hamzik at klhamzik@yahoo.com)

Meal Delivery Service, Cooking Fools
This Bucktown spot offers home meal deliveries customized to your appetite.
(Pricing Varies)

SPLURGE

Phillipe Starck “Louis Ghost Chair,” Highbrow Furniture
The ultimate combo of modern and classic design, this chair (in transparent colors) will go with most any home decor. Her inner designer would be overjoyed to find this under the tree!
($328, originally $410)

(Kristin Hamzik)

Oh, the Fashionista! This girl always looks hot in the latest designer “it” pieces and does she ever know it. She’d rather jab a pencil in her eye than be caught wearing something from last season. Her favorite television shows probably include America’s Next Top Model, Project Runway and of course, Sex and The City. So, what do you get the girl who knows fashion and style like the back of her hand? We’ve got the goods below.

Sparkle Tights, Forever 21
Any stylish girl would shine in these sparkly tights. They are the perfect thing for her to wear out and about to all her holiday parties.
($8.80)

Rhinestone Flex Cuff Bracelet, EXPRESS
These bangles are the icing on the cake for any ensemble. Available individually for $12.50 each, or buy in “bulk” to save some dough and make a bigger impact. Comes in tons of colors to fit anyone’s style.
(4 for $20)

Unisex Circular Scarf, American Apparel
This scarf can be worn over 12 different ways, giving the recipient the ultimate bang for your buck. It is available in an array of colors and is sure to keep someone warm and toasty this winter.
($28)

Sexy Basics Cowl-Neck Tee (Striped), EXPRESS
Everyone loves clothes that are sexy and comfy at the same time. The stripes lend a modern vibe to a more classic shape. Perfect for that someone who listens to Mozart while sitting their Herman Miller chair.
($29.50)

‘Maura’ Pump, Jessica Simpson
Just because her feet are freezing this winer, doesn’t mean they can’t look hot. These pumps have an updated 1940’s look that will be stylish long after the cold winter passes.
($38.90, on sale at Nordstrom.com)

Juicy Couture iPhone® Jelly Cases, Neiman Marcus
Of course a Fashionista wants her iPhone case to be as stylish as she is. Give the whole set of three for your truly high maintenance friend or wrap and give them individually to really stretch your dollar.
($55 for a set of 3, that’s less than 20 bucks a friend!)

Juicy Couture ‘Sammy’ Rain Boot, Nordstrom
The cutest all weather boots, available in twoadorable colors, are sure to put a smile on any fashion forward lady’s face. Act fast to score the sale price and if you happen to spend $100 or more at Nordstrom, the shipping is free!
($79.90)

Check Burryberry Earmuffs, Burberry
Every woman needs that one “it” piece and this year it is the Burberry earmuff. Stylish and practical, earmuffs keep your ears warm without the dreaded hat head effect.
($150, can be found on eBay for cheaper, but watch out for knockoffs!)

Belted Wool Coat, EXPRESS
This coat is white hot and the belt adds that extra touch of style. Plus, an ivory coat is the kind of thing a girl always wants but is not always practical enough to buy for herself.
($198.00)

Gift Card, Bag, Borrow or Steal
Give the gift of luxury, even if it is only temporary. At Bag, Borrow or Steal she can “rent” designer handbags, jewelry and more without the huge investment.
($25 - $10,000)

 
SPLURGE

Tano Today’s Big Thought Bag, Neiman Marcus
If ever there was an item to splurge on, this would be it. A genuine Italian leather handbag created by a dream team of three handbags designers, it’s enough to make any Fashionista feel like she died and went to heaven.
($235)

(Cassandra Kapp)

The Boss Lady is the professional woman in your life. Whether she is your friend, mother or sister-in-law this woman has her stuff together. She is quickly climbing the corporate ladder and looking damn good while doing it. This year give her a gift she will love to show off at the office (or maybe something she can use to escape). Below are our fave picks for the executive superwoman in your life.

Plaid Business Card Case, Red Envelope
Let your business-saavy loved one share his/her business cards in style. They’ll use it often, and think you spent much more on them than you did.
($5.99, or $10.99 with personal embossing of the recipient’s initials)

Personalized Collage Mousepad, Walgreens
A perfect way to bring a smile to your loved one’s face when they are at the computer. You can design the photo collage of your choice and make a special and easy impression. Do it online or in-store.
($12.99)

Wallpaper Floral Crochet Tights, Urban Outfitters
Lucky for fashionable business women everywhere, this season patterned tights are in…and are totally legit for office attire. Urban has some great options at nice prices.
($14.00)

55-Minute Therapeutic Massage, The New School for Massage Student Clinic
Help your loved one de-stress with a gift certificate for a 55-minute massage at the student clinic.
($35.00)

“Samantha” Makeup Bag, 1154 Lill Studio
Give the gift of personal style, in the perfect size. This makeup bag is the right size to fit inside your work or overnight bag. Want to make a day of it? You and your loved one can visit the studio on Armitage and design your bags together.

($36.00)

Built NY Neoprene Laptop Sleeve (Multicolor Dot), Best Buy
These laptop cases are the perfect way to give the gift of business & pleasure at the same time! The sleeves come in different colors, and are $10 less without the strap.
($49.99)

Pink Sony DVP - FX820 Portable DVD Player, Wal-Mart
Perfect for your pal or family member who travels a lot, this pink portable DVD player also plays CDs, MP3s and lets you view your photos. Comes with a 6-hour rechargeable battery pack, car charger and remote control.
($158.54)

SPLURGE

BR Monogram Bowler Handbag, Banana Republic
This 100% leather handbag screams serious business woman. If you want to go all out for a special mentor or friend this season, this bag’s the way to go.
($375.00)

(Noelle Provencial)

“Hey Sal, I can’t afford to fly home for Thanksgiving so a friend is having me to her parent’s house for the holiday weekend. I’ve never met her family and am not sure what an appropriate hostess gift would be. It’s getting down to the wire - help!”
- Karla, Chicago, IL

Karla,

Don’t you worry - your goose (or turkey) isn’t cooked yet! There are some guaranteed gifts that will have that family wanting you to come back anytime.

In this case I would recommend combining your hostess and thank-you gifts into one. You can always (and should always) follow-up with a hand written thank-you note, but walking in the door with a gift immediately shows your appreciation for having been invited and included.

Since it’s a holiday and the house is sure to be full, try to think of a gift that will make the host/ess’ job easier. For example, offer to bring a breakfast basket. It’s a nice gesture, and also keeps the host/ess from having to cook one morning (something that will be very appreciated). Another idea along those same lines is a present that hinges on the holiday which you will be celebrating. Perhaps a Thanksgiving themed Christmas ornament for their family tree. The more thoughtful the gift, the better - so use your friend as an asset. Ask her what her parents like, how formal their house is, etc.

And remember, the best gift you can give is to be a helpful and gracious house guest. Regardless of how your friend behaves in their parents home, you should always keep your space clean, offer to help whenever possible, and be polite!

(This advice column is brought to you by the ever graceful, polished and in-the-know, Sally Jackson. Sally is happy to offer her tips and guidance on everything from relationships to fashion to saving money. If you have a question for Sally, go ahead and email her at Sally@PoorLittleRichGirls.com)